#1 way to get More Matches on Tinder According to ChatGPT
Last week we went over the top 5 tips from ChatGPT to get more matches on Tinder (READ HERE). Today we will focus in on their #1 tip and break it down so YOU get more matches.
Use high-quality photos: Your profile pictures are the first thing people see when swiping on Tinder, so make sure they're clear, well-lit, and showcase your personality. Avoid using blurry or low-quality photos, group photos, or pictures with sunglasses or hats that hide your face.
ChatGPT is 100% right. What do they mean by “high-quality”? They mean use a professional camera. Although phones like the iPhone or Google Pixel have incredible cameras these days, they still can’t quite compete with a real HD camera!
I would recommend hiring a professional photographer. We spend 100s and often 1000s between our clothing, car, haircuts/hair products, gym membership, Tinder premium, and other assets to increase our sex appeal to the opposite gender. So a one time fee of 50-300 dollars to 5-10x our matches isn’t half bad. You can skip a few nights of drinking and smoking to save up ;). Not only will a professional ensure you have “high-quality” photos, but they will make sure your pose is as complimentary to your individual look and body type as possible. They also know what setting, clothing and other aspects are best and will be able to guide you better than you would yourself.
You also could have a friend with a decent camera do it for you even if they lack experience and use articles like this, to guide how and where to pose.
Next, ChatGPT points out the importance of your photos being clear, well-lit, and showcasing your personality. The first 2 are obvious, choose an area outside or inside with lots of windows so plenty of natural sunlight helps your photos be well lit. To state the obvious don’t use photos that came out blurry! Only the clear ones are up for grabs!
Showcasing your personality is essential and you must guide the photographer on your interests. This could be a picture of you reading a book poolside to show you’re intellectual and enjoy outdoor summer vibes. Maybe, a photo of you on a jet ski or mechanical bull to show that you like adventurous fun. The possibilities are endless, so think of something fun you enjoy and get a well lit photo of you doing it.
Gym pics are great but probably not for your first & main photo. Gym photos can be be a powerful asset when done right. Like the others they must be clear, well lit and taken with a professional camera. When used as your 2nd or 3rd photo (but not both), it says you’re fit and sexy without overly bragging. In fact, it’s a humble brag and should look like you’re not posing but someone just took a photo at the perfect moment mid set. Some people make all their photos gym shots, and this is a mistake. Unless your Channing Tatum, having all gym pics is massive overkill and will work against you. When you look like you’re trying to brag that you’re fit it makes you look insecure which will result in less matches.
Lastly, let’s go over what ChatGPT says to avoid. Obviously blurry and low-quality are no good. Photos with sunglasses or something that cover your face are usually a no go, but if you look great and are vibing through the screen it can be appropriate to use after the 3rd photo so they already know what you look like and that you have nothing to hide.
The same rule applies with group photos. It’s not that you can’t use them, but that you shouldn’t as your first 3 photos. Although ChatGPT doesn’t go into this detail, YOU SHOULD have a group photo just not one of the first 3. The reason you need one, is you want to imply a few things without saying it.
You’re a leader of men. Be in the middle of the group photo, look like the center of attention.
You have a social life, this is important so people assume you have your own friends and won’t become annoying needing their attention.
Preselection, have a group photo with other girls in it. This tells potential matches that you’re safe and desired. In other words, it implies other girls already vetted you. Like a job interviewer would, so new girls can skip that process. Subconsciously they assume many positive attributes if they see other woman like being around you.
